The lack of true humility in us is most clearly revealed, for the most part, by the manifestations of our self-love and pride on particular occasions. As long as no one troubles us, we may still seem to be all right; but as soon as someone says something unfavorable about us, or even unintentionally insults us, or fails to acknowledge our supposed merits, we immediately begin to cry out: “Why are they insulting me? What have I done to deserve this? They do not understand me!” and so forth. Here, as we have said, the entire lack of true humility within us is revealed. What did the Lord say? “When they revile you... rejoice and be glad.” Therefore, if we were truly servants of Christ, and if we possessed true and genuine humility, then when faced with insults and humiliations, whether real or imagined, we would not behave as we do, but would act quite differently. But how, you may ask, should we act? Listen, and we will answer you by an example.
When, during the lifetime of Venerable Sergius, the fame of his ascetic labors had spread, a peasant from a distant region far from the monastery, having heard much about Venerable Sergius, came to his monastery and asked, “Where is the abbot?” It happened that at that very time Venerable Sergius was digging the soil in the garden and was wearing old, tattered clothing with many patches. The peasant was pointed toward Sergius, but he did not believe them, for he expected to find the Saint in great glory, and so he asked again, “Where is Venerable Sergius?” Again, they pointed out the Saint to him.
At that moment Sergius came out of the garden, and when the peasant saw him more closely, he turned his face away from the Saint and said to himself: “Why did I go to all this trouble for nothing? I came to see the great prophet about whom I had heard, and I hoped to see him in great glory and honor, but what now? Instead of him, I see only a poor and wretched old man!”
The Saint understood the peasant’s thoughts and, approaching him, began earnestly thanking him for his opinion of the abbot of the monastery. And it came to pass that, just as a proud man rejoices in the praise and honors shown to him, so the Saint, on the contrary, rejoiced in his own dishonor and humiliation.
After this, Sergius brought the peasant to himself, set a meal before him, and graciously entertained him. Then he said to him: “Do not grieve; the one whom you wished to see, you will soon see.”
As the Saint was saying this, a messenger arrived and announced to the Saint the arrival at the monastery of a certain Grand Prince, who had come with a multitude of servants. Sergius went out to meet him, and the prince bowed down to the Saint to the ground. Then the two of them sat down together and began to converse, while all those present listened to them standing.
The peasant watched the prince and the old man from a distance and wondered: “Can this really be the same old man whom I met in that tattered garment?” He asked those standing nearby about him, and they told him that this was indeed the abbot of the monastery.
Only then did the peasant understand his mistake. He began to reproach himself and said: “How could I have been so blind? And why did I not believe those who pointed out the Saint to me? And why did I not show him the honor due to him? It is just that we peasants are called ignorant! How shall I now stand before the Saint?”
When the prince had departed, the peasant fell at the Saint’s feet and began to beg for forgiveness. The Saint received him with the greatest kindness and said: “Do not grieve, child. You alone spoke the truth about me when you called me worthless. Everyone else is mistaken in thinking of me as a great man.”
“And from this,” the account adds, “it is clearly shown how great was the humility of Venerable Father Sergius, for he loved the peasant who despised him even more than the honors shown to him by the prince.”
From this example, brethren, you see that when faced with imagined or actual insults and humiliations, we should not act as we do, but somewhat differently. Namely, we should respond to such humiliations with meekness, with an awareness of our own unworthiness, and even with joy. And this is how Christians must be; for whom does the Lord call blessed? The proud? Those who are easily offended? No, only the poor in spirit, the meek, those who rejoice and are glad when they are reviled.
Therefore, if you wish to establish true humility in your souls, then, first of all, do not have a high opinion of yourselves, but consider yourselves worse than everyone else; then, never complain against your neighbors when they insult you with their words or wrong you even by their deeds; and, finally, even seek peace with those who have insulted or wronged you.
And when you begin to act in this way, only then can it be said of you that you are truly humble, and the words of the Savior can likewise be applied to you: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven” (Matthew 5:3), and “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth” (Matthew 5:5). Amen.
Questions for Discussion 26:1. What did the Saint do when he understood the peasant’s thoughts about him as a poor and wretched old man?
2. What did the Saint rejoice in?
3. What did Sergius do after bringing the peasant to himself?
4. What, according to the words of Sergius, did the peasant say when he called the Venerable worthless?
5. Who, according to the word of God, shall inherit the earth?